"I have a serious question. Be honest."
I was intrigued and nervous. I hoped she wasn't going to ask me if her butt was too big because it wasn't.... and just to be funny, I'd have to lie.
My dear friend, Sadie, started to talk about Thanksgiving, a holiday I dread since we live in an area with no "built-in" family and each year, wondering what we're going to do on the big holiday (Will we be invited somewhere? Will someone want to come to our house for dinner?) is sad and depressing.
This year with no invitations and a fear of cooking/burning a turkey, Sadie suggested she'd make a turkey and her family would just come to our house. I was so happy. We'd have guests and I wouldn't need Dominos-Pizza on speed-dial.
Since then, I've invited other friends who felt empty and lost at the prospect of being alone on Thanksgiving. Which leads me to Sadies phone call and her request, "My friends don't have family in town and I was wondering--"
I didn't let her finish, "Do you want to invite them for Thanksgiving?"
"Well, I don't want--"
"Sadie! Do you want them to come to dinner?"
"Well...if you are okay--"
"What's her phone number?"
"Are you going to call them? Oh no, let me call her first...."
"Sadie, she'll be coming to my house, I want to make sure she knows she's invited and what better way to do that then call her myself. What's her number?"
I hung up and called this new friend and introduced myself and then invited her to our home for Thanksgiving dinner. She said yes, her family would love to come.
Next, I called my husband and told him about our added guests. He operates like me, "Hey, what's a few more?"
All this reminds me of Thanksgiving dinner 1996. When I asked a relative, "Hey, that nice lady on your corner didn't her husband die? She's all alone this Thanksgiving. Why don't we invite her to come down for dinner?"
I will never forget the response she gave me, "My table only seats 8. I don't have enough chairs."
In truth, we could have pulled up a stool or (don't gasp) a 'different' patterned chair. All people care about on Thanksgiving is that they feel loved and accepted. It's so simple and easy.
And in our home, there will always be a seat at our table for anyone wanting to come be thankful with us on this holiday and all holidays.
I hope you are the joyous light for someone else this holiday.